Life 2016

Today after such a long decade I am giving value of writing something. This is not because it has been so long to write anything for blog, it’s because I feel to share the different states of life and mind in today’s time.

You might have heard that life is a journey & we just need to keep our car moving on either in the right direction or wrong to reach to the goal but during this period of time we feels lots of ups and downs, positive & negative things which create lots of thoughts and post that outcome is either a positive or a negative person. We have born with neutral state of mind & life that’s why we always smile in childhood after defeating again and again.

I generally feel & think even for myself also that what were we and what have we become now in the race of achieving or I can say race of running without knowing the destination. When we were younger & in school then we were eager to get older to become like everyone which went to colleges and had lots of fun, post that when we were in college then we wanted to be men like others who go to office or do business and earn so well but when we are on the same page where we wanted to be on then still our hunger of be like others is not quiet down but due to whole journey from kid to man, we have forgotten to live for ourselves totally, now we have just responsibility of one work after another not even in office but wherever we are. Just run & run cause if you don’t run someone is going ahead after smashing you and you will be out of the game, this is the state of mind now a days in which we all are living now a days and eliminating the respect & humanity.

And finally once we achieve something for which we have already spent approx 80-90% our life post that we realize that we have done nothing except running by watching others and now if we want to stand up for ourselves but found all alone in the room cause there is no one with whom you can jump, smile and dance.

I read also a post on Facebook and I quote “When we kid, we think what elder will think..when we are in younger state we think what other will think and finally when we are at our final stage of life we realize that there is nobody think for you” I unquote.

In Today’s era people need other’s defeat for self happiness and if there is nothing to get then they join any extra cultural activity to keep happy now a days but do not realize that why are we so hurried and buried and what milestone they want to achieve due to which they cannot give other’s opportunities for getting success.

As of now I am also suffering with such type of environment called society in which whatever you can do but society will never let you be a human and go ahead. People of today’s era become selfish for themselves only for which he/she is seeking the happiness in throughout life and at the end nothing left except saying the last word “GOD PLEASE FOGIVE ME”.

So for this note I am not giving any philosophy class or lecture of any Baba just wanted to request that please be human first try to make other’s happy which will give you real happiness.

Hay Days

Its 7 AM in the morning and i am in the office but on the way in the cab there are lots of stuff were going into my mind.

From last one month i am really feeling very down and seeking some loneliness for converting my feelings into words. Dont know exactly what is this but i understood one thing about life is:

We never give value to our present but when it become the past it become very precious.

But due to some busy schedule and my fitness i was unable to even think about it. As of now i dont have any story about anything i am just keep writing whatever is running into my heart.

Hay days, words is so beautiful to hear and to memorize about your past days when there were no responsibilties and sarrows about life. It feels more hectic when your life become your responsibility. At that time we thought that why these things are happening to us, keep on busy with assignments, test and somewhere shaitaniya and their punishment but now when i look those days as pictures i found really happiness and relaxation.

As i am not a boy of Delhi i came here to find my goal and to achieve something which will make me a good person or good human being complementary with my career, families and ofcourse friends.

A boy who is relocated from his home town to a city of dreams where everyone comes with a vision to establish himself/herself for life and career. Some are become successful but some are not cause it all depends on your fortune,hard work and believe in yourself.

I as a person know everything i need to do for establishing myself here but its not that much easy as to write. I keep on thinking about all stuff and work towards to achieve them.

Hope i can achieve whatever i want to but i just need your guidence, support and blessings for going forward in life.

Life is too short….

Life – as the word length is very small as its existence too but it teaches us many things. We always complaining with life that it has nothing meaning full but it has an empire of several activities. Basically it’s a cyclic process in which we get happiness and sorrow but behind each activity we get lots of new experiences.

I don’t know why I am writing this on the very first day of this year as today is the New Year and everyone wants to do party and have fun and I am writing this serious note but this is my experience till now that life is really too short as when I was a kid then I always expected that when I will be grown and enjoy like everyone does but now when I grew up then I want my childhood back.

Everyone always loves his childhood very much because at that time you don’t need to think and worry about anything regarding life, career, money, fame, and girlfriend (Of course the most serious topic now a days I must say).

As soon as we grow up life teaches us that it is not that easy and long, it’s too short and you have very less time to live it so live each moment as it’s your last either it’s bad or it’s good. I always memorize my old days and want to live that at least one more time such as school, cyclic racing, wait for the interval, homework, who will first talk to that girl, applications for leave, school functions, and then comes to graduation as it has its own image which always give me smile when I recall them by seeing old pics such as bunking of the class, assignments, surprise tests, lab, practical, results, cafeteria, annual functions, dance, passion, girls (jo har stage par payi jati hain) and then jump to the next level – my Post graduation time which taught me several things.

Serious my three years of Jaipur gave me so many experiences and taught me that life is not as it seems or you think but still I miss my PG life because it gave me many memories in the form of some unforgettable friends, class, assignments, class test, some beautiful faculties (jo mujhe bhut pasand thi), night out, wet dance in the winter @2 in the night, surprise birthday plans, journey of bus, tears, fights and many more.

And then last but not the least after PG to till the date I am feeling many changes in my life. It’s not because I became a man now, it’s because I just understand the value of life and the people who makes it more beautiful.  2014 was not so good as it gave me many bad memories complementary with some good experiences and people as I mentioned in my last post “EK AJNABI”.

Moreover life has different faces at every stage and it always gives you many things so that if you ever remember them in future then you have so many reasons to smile and cry as today I am memorizing all those moments which I have spent with many people and realized  that life is too short. Many come and many go but life always runs with the same speed and it doesn’t stop for anybody for anything.

So with this hope I really wish that this year will give you many good experiences and little bad experiences too because bad experience always teaches us many things so experience each moment because life is too short to live and too long for think so don’t think just do whatever you want to do.